Table 3 Overview of sub-themes and themes

Distrusting the patient

Lacking trust in the patient and one’s own abilities

Feeling inadequate

Being influenced by pre-understandings and emotions

Being under internal and external influences

Being part of a multifaceted collaboration

Establishing explicit boundaries and control

Moving towards a genuine nurse-patient relationship

Breaking down the patient’s barrier

Being respectful and present

Laying a foundation for a trustful relationship